记得提出批评的目的并是要让人感到非常的难受;而是要帮助他们。不要直接的指责对方,而是用一种轻松的方式传达意见。用类似,"Next time you might want to …" 或是 "I find it helpful to …"能让人不觉得是在责备而觉得只是提供帮助。"Next time you might want to give a little more attention to the audience. I find it helpful to look people in the eyes while I am speaking."